For as long as you wish to keep them in your life, John, whoever they may be, understanding them, as opposed to changing them, will wildly improve chances they'll also wish to keep you in their life. 

Oh wow, how I love you - 
  The Universe
John, our Notes from the Universe 2020 Calendar is soon to sell out.

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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On the other hand, John, you're pretty much stuck with me.
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