It's not as if one could be bored enough, feel frustrated enough, or complain enough that their life would suddenly turn around. Doesn't work that way.

Whatever anyone "is," John, they become more of. And anyone can change what they become by thinking new thoughts. 

Happily, 
  The Universe
John, here's a quickie meditation technique...

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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You will help me reach them, won't you, John?
Do this for yourself...