John, avoid gray areas.
There, the path to safety is guarded by the lies of "maybe," "sometimes," and "I don't know." There is a truth. There is a way. Life is absolute, and its principles exacting. If you put it out "there," it has to come back. Ask, and it must be revealed.
Think, speak, and move with your desires, and nothing will ever be the same.
Tallyho,
The Universe