There can only be a need for forgiveness, John, when first there is blame.

And there can only be blame, when first there is misunderstanding.

Kung fu, 
  The Universe
John, are you making any of these 4 unconscious mistakes?

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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And often, John, misunderstandings arise for one of three reasons: not enough love, not enough sleep, or not enough chocolate.