Here's a trick, John, for dealing with someone who's disappointed you:

Imagine how they looked as a very young child timid, a little scared, really cute, and truly not knowing any better and realize this is who you're dealing with now. 

Aw-w-w-w,
  The Universe
John, the human spirit is so resilient! And the power of people helping people is astonishing.

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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And then remember, John, no one can take anything from the "awakened."