When you can be happy "without," John, it gets easier to bring it about.

Care less,
  The Universe
John, do you scroll down to read the P.S. of each day’s Note?
Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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Yes, care John, care a lot, but not so much that even an ounce of your happiness might hang in the balance.