For every setback, disappointment and heartbreak, John, ask yourself, "What does this create the opportunity for?" 

And therein you will find its gift. 

Everything has a reason,
   The Universe
John, I’ve experienced my fair share of health issues... 

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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And if you look close enough, John, that reason will always be love, healing, or happy dancing, if not all three.
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