Whether obvious or not, John, and usually it's not, everyone in your life is there to help you, AND, they're actually doing so right now.

We call this the “Everyone In Your Life Is There To Help You Rule.” 

Tallyho, 
   The Universe
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Which, incidentally, John, doesn't mean you have to keep them there. In fact, their offering may simply be to teach you to say "adios."
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