Women are faced with the most difficult choices in life. For me, it was whether to stay at home to raise my kids, or to return to work to pursue my career. Whatever your dilemma is, make an honest decision and do it with flair!
Women in the workplace have many different things to juggle, from work responsibilities to childcare and housework. When a woman aspires to work and advance her career, she carries her home and social responsibilities with her. These responsibilities are usually not lessened or shared in order to afford her the same chance that her male peer has to advance his career. This reality has led to the notion of women striving to become ‘superwomen’, which gained much popularity, encouraging women that they can do it all. The problem with this notion, however, is that it is not sustainable. Being a superwoman every day can lead to burnout one day… and being a superwoman shouldn’t cost a woman her mental, emotional or physical wellbeing. As empowering as it can be to give women space in the workplace, society has not helped enough to support the working women.
There is so much that a woman can bring to the table in the workplace. One thing that stands out for me is the empathy, understanding and consideration that a woman naturally radiates. This trait has been identified in great female leaders. I would rate empathy as the number one quality of a boss lady.
The term Boss Lady does not have to be exclusive to female leaders in the workplace. A woman displays the qualities of a boss in everything she does - whether it be nurturing good children, climbing the corporate ladder, or cooking up a storm in the kitchen. A woman winning in any aspect of her life is a boss lady.
With all the things a woman has to juggle, it is important to strike a balance. There is peace, beauty, and sanity in balance. And before we ask society to help us achieve our balance, we need to first be deliberate and purposeful about it.
In the spirit of women’s month, let us acknowledge the boss ladies in our lives. Support and appreciate the women around us for they are, in most instances, the pillar of strength in our household. Let us harness our boss lady powers and leave a sparkle wherever we go! | 
