Hi John,

Can’t get a word in edgewise? How do you tell someone they always dominate the conversation without offending them? Today’s Q&A offers four tips.
Addressing a Poor Listener
by Emily Gregory

I have a son who is a terrible listener. He monopolizes the conversation. If I question a statement he has made, he becomes quite defensive and sometimes angry. He is very rigid in his thinking and beliefs. How would you suggest I handle this situation?

Signed,
Monologued

I believe that, while humans don’t necessarily have an innate need to be right, we do have an innate need to be heard. I am sorry that you are in relationship with someone you care about deeply and your needs are not being met. That is tough.

You will need to find your own path through this situation, but here are some ideas to consider.
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