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In this course, internationally acclaimed author and psychotherapist Rhonda Findling will empower you by giving you the strength to let go of emotionally unhealthy relationships. You will learn how to stop obsessing or ruminating about partners that are not reciprocating your level of interest or are emotionally unavailable. Rhonda will give you tools to help you stop acting desperate or needy. You will learn why you compulsively contact partners though you know these behaviors are not in your best interest.

This course will help you to
  • Stop acting desperate with people that you like
  • Stop checking up on your ex
  • Sit back and wait rather than being the pursuer
  • Increase your self confidence- by not chasing others around
  • Learn to be more independent when it comes to relationships
  • Learn to give another the space to long for you
  • Learn how to sit on your impulses
What is included in this course
  • How To Stop Clinging
  • Going Through A Breakup
  • Building A Support System
  • How To Not Act Desperate
  • Obsessing
  • Behavioral Changes You Can Make
  • Why You Can't Let Go
  • Later On: What To Do If You Have A Setback
Each lesson provides transformational writing exercises that will help you process your feelings. Rhonda offers audio advice as well as meditations to help you fully step out of emotionally unhealthy relationships.

Actual course participants share their experiences

"This course has helped me tremendously. It even helped me to be more aware that I was about to get involved in a very unhealthy relationship. I feel so much happiness, power, and control in not accepting these types of relationships any longer. It has been a beautiful shift in my life! " - Kay

"This is a terrific course! I am very impressed." - Zan

"Today I came back and started re-reading the course. What an amazing feeling is to see that I am in a totally different place today" - HB

"This is exactly what I've been looking for! Strategies to deal with the persistent thoughts and the on going need to 'get in touch'." - Michael

"I am so happy about finding this course. Thank God I'm now free physically, and I'm working on being free emotionally. I really needed this course, I feel the holes in me being closed." - Carolyn

"This course is very helpful. I like how it breaks down the truth and gives me suggestions to imagine and visualize. " - Annie

"This totally spoke to me like nothing really has in the past. I was never ready to accept it and be ready to do something about it for myself...until now. Thank you, from the deepest part of my heart, thank you." - Rhonda


About Rhonda Findling

Rhonda Findling is a psychotherapist and the author of Don't Text That Man! A Guide To Self-Protective Dating In The World Of Technology", "Don't Call That Man! A Survival Guide To Letting Go", "When He Can't Commit: What To Do When You Fall For An Ambivalent Man", "Don't Lose That Man! How Women Sabotage Their Opportunities For Successful Romantic Relationships And What They Can Do To Change", "Portrait of My Desire", "A Teenagers Memoir" and the "Don't Text That Man!" app.

Rhonda has an international private psychotherapy practice based out of New York where she has practiced for over twenty years. She has had on-going individual phone consultations with clients living in Turkey, England, France, China, Ireland, Bermuda, Japan, Africa, Australia and Canada. She was a psychotherapist on the staff of Post Graduate Center for Mental Health in New York for fourteen years.

Rhonda has led workshops and seminars (including the Learning Annex, the 92nd St. Y and Hazelden) in New York, L.A., Paris, Berlin, and London.

Rhonda has appeared as an expert on several national talk shows including CNN Headline News, Ricki Lake, Geraldo, Maury Povitch, Eye Witness News, Good Day New York, Carnie, Ilyana, Tempest and Judith Regan Tonight. She has also been a guest on radio shows nationwide.

Rhonda has been featured in the New York Post, Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, Newsday, Rocky Mountain News, Forbes.com, US Weekly.com, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Latina Magazine, Glamour (UK and Paris editions) Le Progress, Life and Style, Femina and Today's Black Woman. Her articles have appeared in Complete Woman Magazine, Essence, and International Living. com.

How Does It Work?

Starting today, you will receive a new lesson every week for 8 weeks (total of 8 lessons). Each lesson is yours to keep and you'll be able to refer back to it whenever you want. And if you miss a lesson or are too busy to get to it that day, each lesson will conveniently remain in your account so you won't have to search for it when you're ready to get back to it.

Get Started Now

We are offering this course with the option of selecting how much you want to pay. No matter how much you pay, you'll be getting the same course as everybody else. We simply trust that people are honest and will support the author of the course with whatever they can afford. And if you are not 100% satisfied, we will refund your money.


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