Blaming Others | by Madisyn Taylor As we begin to truly understand that the world outside of us is a reflection of the world inside of us, we may feel confused about who is to blame for the problems in our lives. If we had a difficult childhood, we may wonder how we can take responsibility for that, and in our current relationships, the same question arises. We all know that blaming others is the opposite of taking responsibility, but we may not understand how to take responsibility for things that we don't truly feel responsible for. We may blame our parents for our low self-esteem, and we may blame our current partner for exacerbating it with their unconscious behavior. Objectively, this seems to make sense. After all, it is not our fault if our parents were irresponsible or unkind, and we are not to blame for our partner's bad behavior. Perhaps the problem lies with the activity of blaming. Whether we blame others or blame ourselves, there is something aggressive and unkind about it. It sets up a situation in which it becomes difficult to move forward under the burdensome feelings of shame and guilt that arise. It also puts the resolution of our pain in the hands of someone other than us. Ultimately, we cannot insist that someone else take responsibility for their actions; only they can make that choice when they are ready. In the meantime, if we want to move forward with our lives instead of waiting around for something that may or may not happen, we begin to see the wisdom of taking the situation into our own hands. We do this by forgiving our parents, even if they have not asked for our forgiveness, so that we can be free. We end the abusive relationship with our partner, who may never admit to any wrongdoing, because we are willing to take responsibility for how we are treated. In short, we love ourselves as we want to be loved and create the life we know we deserve. We leave the resolution of the wrongs committed against us in the hands of the universe, releasing ourselves to live a life free of blame. | DailyOM Course Spotlight by Rena Greenberg Are you tired of the endless struggle of dieting? Are you tired of feeling bad about your health, energy and weight? Do you feel out of control around food? Are you longing to feel better about yourself? Are you ready to take control of your life and your eating habits? If you answered, "yes" to any of these questions, then lose weight now with self-hypnosis. In this course, you will learn how to tap into the incredible power of the subconscious mind to make permanent changes in your attitude towards food. You will be given the tools to change the way you think about food subconsciously so you naturally begin to prefer healthy foods and are turned off to foods that are harmful to you. You will be given techniques to connect with your own inner mind to make exercise a positive habit that you look forward to. You'll learn to eliminate overeating, binging, snacking and emotional eating, and find freedom from food cravings (for carbs and sweets). You'll start to feel better about yourself and have a healthier more loving relationship with yourself and food. Top 10 DailyOM Courses 1. 21 Day Booty Core 2. Lose Emotional and Physical Weight with Tapping 3. Fit and Fierce Over 40 4. HIIT Yoga Fusion 5. 21 Days of Prayer to Change Your Life 6. Reinventing The Body, Resurrecting the Soul 7. 14 Day Spinal Reset 8. Make Yourself a Money Magnet 9. A Year to Get Rich with Purpose 10. 21 Days to Phenomenal Abdominals
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