“Three days before turning 40, I was told I have Stage 4 metastatic bowel cancer. Due to the 21 bi-lobar mets in my liver, I was told it was ‘unresectable’ and so I was to start palliative chemotherapy within three weeks. My 3-year-old daughter, who was blissfully unaware of how her life had changed, wrestled it all out of me and I made a conscious decision to give it everything I had to fight this disease. Here are my words of wisdom or tips and tricks if you like: Don’t just ‘control what you can control’ - dominate it! I empowered myself with knowledge and built a strong supportive network around me. Always go for 2nd opinions and be forthcoming with your Oncologist with this. Allow friends/family to help - you don’t have to fight this on your own. I will end by expressing my gratitude for the Bowel Cancer Australia website and many other online forums in the bowel cancer space. It’s in those darker times I took solace in the fact that others where in this fight too, and I take great pride in being able to share my story to inspire others to keep fighting.” ~ Anthony. You’re invited to join The Movement, Bowel Cancer Australia's closed nurse moderated Facebook Group, supporting bowel cancer patients to wellness beyond diagnosis. As an active member of the Group, Anthony shares his lived experiences to support other people living with or beyond the disease and help raise awareness that you’re never too young to have bowel cancer. The Movement is a place for patients and carers to connect with others who have their own lived experience with monthly expert guest presenters and face-to-face informal online coffee catch-ups. The date for the next (virtual) Catch-up is midday October 24th. |