You might be judging yourself in comparison with others and this could make you feel less than secure about yourself today. Maybe your feelings are due to a tendency to notice the smaller things about yourself that do not match up to an unrealistic ideal. If you can keep in mind that picking and choosing qualities and characteristics of other people to weigh against yourself will never yield you a complete picture, you might find it easier to let go our your out of reach notions. As you look at others today, you may want to try and see them as beings that also struggle, experience problems and have their own imperfections and uncertainties. Seeing others in this way could help you to view yourself against a different norm – that of being human, and may make you feel better as a result.

Understanding that we are whole and complete just as we are will give us a healthier view of our lives. Each and every one of us has something we are not certain about life, appearance, or career –which is simply part of our experiences as humans. When we compare ourselves with others and feel badly, however, we are not really looking at every part of that person, for they more likely than not will also have similar shortcomings and insecurities. By realizing that we all have problems and that there is no such thing as a perfect person, it will be easier for you to accept and feel comfortable about yourself today.