Child Rage: How to Manage Explosive Anger in Kids and Teens
By Janet Lehman, MSW
Responding to your child’s rage with your own anger is not the answer. Rather, you need to have what I call a rage plan so that you know exactly how you will effectively handle the next outburst or temper tantrum. A rage plan puts you in control of yourself and the situation.
In The Total Transformation®, James Lehman, MSW shows you exactly how to:
Establish and maintain parental authority
Set firm limits and boundaries
Hold your child accountable for their actions
Disconnect from arguments while staying calm
We’ve seen even the most defiant, obnoxious and verbally abusive kids change, time and time again. To achieve these results, you just need to learn the right tools and process for when abusive and defiant behavior kicks in and takes over.
Break the pattern of yelling and screaming
No more reasoning and negotiating
Stop groping for words in the moment
Never give in to your child’s demands again
Watch realistic parent-child role plays that demonstrate techniques for whatever challenge you're facing:
Swearing and verbal abuse
Refusing to get out of bed and go to school
Bad grades
Breaking curfew
Refusing to do chores ...and more!
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The Total Transformation®
The Complete Guide to Consequences™
Getting Through to Your Child™
Two Parents, One Plan™
The ODD Lifeline®
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Life Over the Influence™
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