March 10, 2021 • Vol. 19 Issue 10

 

Hi John,

How do you hold a crucial conversation with one who is particularly sensitive, or insensitive for that matter?

In recent weeks we've received questions about how to hold difficult conversations with people who have everything from anxiety to autism. Should you change your approach? In this week's Q&A, Brittney Maxfield offers her take. Also, Maria Moss shares one tip for working moms feeling overburdened by the effects of the pandemic.

 
 

Q&A: Crucial Accountability
Brittney Maxfield

How to Make it Safe to Deliver Feedback

"I have a staff member who is diagnosed with depression and anxiety. She also has a very low sense of self-esteem. Giving her constructive feedback on her performance is painful—for both of us. I have a hard time helping her feel safe when she seems to only focus on the negative stuff. How can I establish a sense of safety and keep her from going into survival mode?"

 
 

How Do I Say That?

How Working Moms Can Do it All

If things weren’t challenging enough for working moms, the pandemic fixed that. Moms everywhere were suddenly compelled to become teachers, coaches, activity directors and more. Maria Moss has one tip that can help.

 
 

In the News

ATD: 4 Things to Stop and Start Doing to be More Productive in 2021

To succeed in this busy world, we must find a way to manage (not do) all the stuff in our lives. Here are four things to stop doing and start doing that will help you avoid burnout and be more effective.

 
 
 


 

Thinking always tends to be an emotional topic. There is a tendency to regard the thought of people who think differently from us as impaired, while our own thinking is not. And if other people do not think as we do, we tend to think that education, or better information, should put matters right. Flaws in our own thinking are almost by definition rarely apparent to use, certainly not until after the event, including those occasions when we think about thinking, our own and other people's.

Frank Smith, "To Think"

 
 

Live Online Course

Register to Attend Crucial Accountability, April 5–9

Join us live online to learn how to master performance discussions, manage projects without taking over, and resolve behavioral problems.

 

Want to get these emails weekly? Subscribe now.

Questions or comments? Send us an email.

Want to share this with a friend? Share it!

.