I get in zones and funks. Zones are my way of responding to sadness. I just go into a zone in a frozen state. I'm usually pretty good at recognizing it quickly. If not, Lisa helps. LOL. Funks are my way of responding to frustration or anger at being pulled off course. To get out of these takes a ton of work because I usually am out of touch with what's happening and it takes me a while to finally recognize it. Zones can be treated with doing something happy or healthy or whatever. A walk. Talking it through. Exercise. Writing in my journal. Stuff like that. Funks take some self-analysis. Why am I in a funk? What's pissing me off right now and I'm not admitting it to myself? Do I feel taken for granted? Not seen? Misunderstood? Am I feeling pressure to hide again, conceal my true authentic self, and fall back into a safe and secure line? Am I being pulled off course and losing sight of my mission? I was in a funk this week. Actually, the morning I was going to see my therapist again. She helped me unpack what was going on. I realized I was feeling pressure to tame myself. This made me realize that three things are necessary and important for me right now: 1. Clarity in what I do. 2. Confidence to know I have the credentials and can do this (This is where I most struggle!) 3. Courage to carry it through. (You can use that if you want.) Do you get in zones and funks too? |