Recently my wife and I asked my parents if they could sign a form granting us power of attorney. My parents are still active and independent, but we’ve heard horror stories from friends whose aging parents were suddenly hospitalized, and their families had no ability to advocate for them when they were incapacitated.
It’s an unpleasant thing to think about. I’d love to think my parents will be around forever. But these are the kinds of things you need to think about before they happen, not after.
There’s a spiritual dimension to this topic as well. In “Not as Those Who Have No Hope,” Kathryn Butler explores how we can honor both God and our loved ones as death nears. If you have an aging loved one, her wisdom on the subject is well worth your time.
When it comes to end-of-life issues, we don’t have to go it alone. Our resource, Ministry to the Dying, stresses the role of the church in caring for people in their final days on earth. It will teach you about home and hospital visits, how to prepare your congregation for death before an illness or injury sets in, and how to minister to families and friends losing a loved one.
