Antonio Conte and Tottenham: everyone knows it’s over

Antonio Conte and José Mourinho are not BFFs. They’re not even FFs, although they have been known to effing eff at one another on the touchline. In January 2018, while Manchester City were charging towards the title at record speed, Conte and Mourinho passed the time by slinging thinly-disguised abuse back and forth via the medium of press conferences. The insults included “clown”, “fake” and “demenza senile”, and the whole thing peaked when Mourinho, reaching a heroic level of gratuitous pettiness, referenced Conte’s historical ban for failing to report match-fixing. “Did he? Not me.” In other news, both were sacked before the end of the year. And while they’d never admit it, like many enemies they have plenty in common. They’re winners, for one thing, but heaven help the rest of the world when they realise they’re fighting a losing battle. That’s where another shared quality comes in; when it comes to conscientious, passive-aggressive pursuit of the sack, Conte and Mourinho are world leaders.

When he first joined Chelsea, Mourinho replaced Claudio Ranieri, whose departure was such a poorly-kept secret that he became known as a “dead man walking”. Mourinho and Conte have redefined the concept: at various times in their careers they have been dead men walking and talking and talking and talking until somebody shuts them up with a P45 and a nice big pay-off. In this particular field of interest, nothing will ever top Mourinho’s departure from Chelsea in 2015-16, a four-month tour de force in which he effortlessly offended around 90% of the world’s population and behaved in increasingly bizarre ways, stopping just short of moving his office to an offline cabin in the woods and sending team talks written in Esperanto via carrier pigeon. But Conte is putting together an impressively sustained portfolio of his own, and it looks like he is about to add another sacking to his CV.

There will be no huge pay-off this time, as his contract expires at the end of the season. But for a variety of reasons – boredom, a realisation Spurs are always going to be Spurs, boredom, a new perspective on life after the deaths of Gianluca Vialli, Gian Piero Ventrone and Sinisa Mihajlovic, not to mention his own health problems, boredom – Conte looks ready to take flight DO1 back to Italy. Whatever pretence remained of a future for him and Spurs disappeared with their tepid Big Cup exit against Milan. In terms of results, Conte has overachieved as Spurs manager. They shouldn’t have been in Big Cup to go out of it, and good luck getting more out of that squad. As with Mourinho – see, they have loads in common – his time at Spurs might be very different but for a startling loss of form from Son Heung-min. The problem for Conte is that the results haven’t been nearly good enough to justify the performances, and especially the style of play.

Everyone knows it’s over, but first they must do a bit of PR dancing. “I have a contract with Tottenham,” cooed Conte after Wednesday’s game, although intriguingly his mouth, eyes and hands didn’t move one iota. “I respect the contract. At the end of the season, assessments will be made with the club in the most serene way. Let’s see how the season ends,” he continued, shot-putting a crystal ball through the nearest window. “Maybe they can send me away even earlier. Tottenham know very well what my thoughts are and at the end of the season we will meet and make a decision. I am really sorry for the fans, but we cannot hope for a miracle one day that a trophy goes into our training ground. We have to build and have patience,” concluded the man whose average stay in a job is around 14 months.

He’s been at Spurs for 16.

Join Barry Glendenning from 5.45pm GMT for hot Big Vase last-16 coverage of Sporting 1-1 Arsenal, while Rob Smyth will be on deck at 8pm for Manchester United 2-1 Real Betis.

“The more I find things to do outside football, the better I feel on the pitch. And that doesn’t have to be drawing attention to social issues; it can be finding creative things to do, other interests. It’s as if one thing fosters the other. When I limit myself to football, I feel worse: as if focusing solely on football creates pressure, a feeling of being overwhelmed. Getting out of that helps” – Borja Iglesias talks about getting kicked, pressure and being called the Panda, plus painting his nails and why more footballers should speak out. Oh, and heading to Old Trafford with Betis. It’s another cracking Sid Lowe interview.

“Comparing Scott Parker’s win percentage to beer strengths (yesterday’s Football Daily) is an opportunity to share a story about an encounter I had with some 16% beer a few years ago. It was a special event in my local for a series of imperial stouts; there were four, I managed a third of a pint of three and a shot of the fourth, all of which was too much. At one point, it transpired two beers had been connected up wrongly, so a 16% beer and a 7.4% beer had been transposed. Realising his mistake, the barman said: ‘You can tell that’s the 16% one because the air bubbles can’t escape.’ I suppose the cruel irony in all this for Parker is it suggests that had his win percentage been lower, his message might have got through more effectively” – Ed Taylor.

“Maybe you could be a bit more respectful to Scott Parker. I have no connection with him and am an avid Arsenal fan, but reading your very rude and patronising article on a man who has just lost his job saddens me. In these times, please try and stay nice” – James Roe.

“It’s quite amazing that Paris Saint-Germain have spent more than £1bn in the last few years, just for the sole purpose of getting knocked out in the last 16 of Big Cup. Daniel Levy did it for half that” – Noble Francis.

“Must confess to becoming mildly obsessed with Football Daily [really? – Football Daily Ed]. Yes, really. What will it be today? ‘Cheered’, ‘sighed’, ‘groaned’, ‘honked’, ‘trilled’, ‘tooted’, ‘roared’? But, I have to ask, whatever happened to ‘chomped’? It hasn’t featured for ages. Any other old favourites that are due a comeback?” – Pete Lennon.

Send your letters to the.boss@theguardian.com. Today’s winner of our letter o’ the day, receiving a copy of Nooruddean Choudry’s Inshallah United: a story of faith and football, is … Ed Taylor. We’ve one more copy to give away, so get typing.

Another season, another dismal Big Cup failure for PSG, who lost the second leg of their tie against Bayern Munich 2-0 to go out 3-0 on aggregate. “It’s the product of a unique season, a loaded calendar,” tooted Christophe Galtier, apparently unaware of their tour to Doha and Riyadh in January.

Corinne Diacre has been given Le Boot from her gig in charge of France Women after three players said they’d no longer play for her. “The malfunctions observed seem, in this context, irreversible,” blurted an FFF statement.

Our linguistic skills are coming on no end. “Scott Parker is niet langer hoofdcoach van Club Brugge,” trilled the club from Bruges shortly after yesterday’s Daily was sent.

Match of the Day host Gary Lineker says he stands by his comments criticising the government’s grim immigration policy and is not worried about being suspended from his job at the BBC.

Manchester United’s summer shopping list now includes Mason Mount – as well as Harry Kane, Jude Bellingham, Victor Osimhen and all three members of the Famileigh.

Mikel Arteta is expected to pick another strong Big Vase side as Arsenal take on Sporting in Lisbon. “If we play well and are able to win the game,” he chomped, “for sure we’ll be able to prepare better for the next game.”

Chelsea manager Emma Hayes wants WSL clubs to offer more support to players who have babies. “If a player tears an ACL, you do everything possible to get them back on the pitch in nine to 12 months,” she said. “We should be exactly the same with a woman that has a baby, but we don’t. I think we have to ask ourselves more seriously why that is.”

Celtic are still nine points clear at the top of a typically competitive Scottish Premiership, coming from behind to beat Hearts 3-1 with Kyogo Furuhashi scoring his 20th league goal of the season.

Having amassed 109 caps, Chris Gunter is calling time on his Wales career.

And an investigation into Gianni Infantino’s use of a private jet in 2017 has been closed. “Since the start of proceedings, the Fifa president has been fully at the disposal of the Swiss authorities and remains hopeful that the judicial system recognises that the current Fifa administration has turned the page on the past and is now established as a credible and respected organisation,” honked … Fifa.

Jonathan Wilson decries PSG’s lack of discipline and heart.

“What is the point of the rest of Spurs’ league season from here? A desperate push to finish fourth in order to do all this over again?” Barney Ronay on Tottenham.

Max Rushden reflects on the absurd Wout Weghorst furore and footballer apologies.

And an interesting read from Mark Gordon: how assistant referees cope in the angry world of football.

Arsenal captain Tom Parker, impressively holding his form after what must have been a long, old time of it, as waxwork maker John Tussaud crafts his likeness for a model at Madame Tussauds in April 1930. Days later, Parker would lead the Gunners to their first major piece of silverware as they won the FA Cup, beating Huddersfield 2-0.