Your doctor doesn't tell you what to do. Does this: Respects what’s important to you and sees you as the final decision-maker Not this: Ignores your preferences and advises that you do as they say
Your doctor doesn't make you feel judged. Does this: Accepts you for who you are; no eye-rolling, no sighing; offers a safe space to be who you truly are – kids or no kids, sexual preferences, gender identity and all Not this: Makes judgments about your birth control choices or sexual activities
Your doctor instills confidence in you. Does this: Leaves you feeling as if your doctor has a firm grasp of what's best for you Not this: Seems unsure about the latest guidance and how it applies to your care
Your doctor appreciates other viewpoints. Does this: Appreciates when you do your homework and arrive to your appointment well-informed Not this: Seems threatened when you ask questions
If you find yourself agreeing with these statements, you've likely found a doctor that suits you well.
Yours in good health,
Kate White, M.D., OB-GYN Author | 
