How To Know When You Need Yoga To Balance Your Life? Steve is the leader of his voluntary weekend charity group, he is hyperactive as per definition but often his over-ambitious attitude is misunderstood by the group leading to internal conflicts. He came to the church this Sunday. After attending services at church my friends and I love to hang out at a cafeteria with punctured eggs and hot, refreshing cups of Americano. Fred, Donna, Megan, Aaliyah, Naomi and I sat around the table but Steve reached for the corner seat by the window and was constantly looking out, lost in himself. In the middle of our usual banter, I broke Steves silence by asking him, how come he was not rushing to his usual weekend projects by now? Steve looked at me with despair in his eyes. He said the weekend project was in an orphanage but it stands cancelled as his team betrayed him at the last moment. He said with anger pouring with every word, "Their pace is like the turtle as against mine." "Steve, hold on! May be they have other priorities. Don't judge people," said Donna. Steve was defensive and retorted aggressively, "Then why would they commit to be a part of the team." He was clearly in a state that needed our attention. He had lost hope in his team and in himself and they were reflecting the same dejection towards him. He has always been a leader from his childhood and had volunteered for a number of projects but it is not a happy place to be in I realized. I asked Naomi to step in, she is a life-coach and psychologist and knows about human behavior more than any of us. We have all been there. Conflicts happen not just at work but in families too. Ego clashes are a commonplace in all relationships. So, how do we maintain the balance? Naomi said, "Have you ever seen a pendulum oscillating." We all uttered a yes in unison followed by chuckles. "So what's the pendulum got to do with my problem here?" asked Steve irritably. Read More | 
