When we face disagreements or see someone who is clearly in the wrong, it can be tempting to distance ourselves from that person. In our highly-connected culture, this can look like unfriending on social media, not replying to texts, refusing to speak face-to-face, or even canceling relationships.
Christians aren’t exempt from these types of conflicts, but the Bible gives us a guidebook on how to handle them. In Galatians 2:11-13, we see a heated situation between Peter and Paul, two leaders of the early church. When Paul notices Peter is living a double-standard life and being hypocritical, he addresses the situation. Scripture says Paul “opposed him to his face.” He didn’t shy away from Peter or hide behind a messenger. He didn’t rally others to turn against him. Paul spoke directly to Peter about his sin. He didn’t tear him down as a person; he kept his comments focused on the actions themselves. He spoke up because he understood the influence they both had on others. Too much was at stake to not say something.
We too will find ourselves in situations where we stand opposed to others, sometimes we’ll even need to confront sin. Although it’s uncomfortable, it's important that we find courage and gracefully address conflicts when they arise.
