Punching holes in the wall. Breaking and throwing things. Smashing your car's windshield. Most of us never expect to face these behaviors from our children, but it happens all too often with defiant children. Here's what you can do as a parent.
 

In Getting Through to Your Child™, child behavioral therapist James Lehman walks you through realistic parent/child demonstrations that show you exactly what to say and do to face intimidating, abusive behavior without getting emotional.

Learn to talk to your child about unacceptable language - and give consequences for it - without getting frustrated or emotional.

This program features realistic, easy-to-follow role plays with solutions for:

• Anger and intimidation
• Lying and breaking curfew
• Name-calling between siblings
• Homework and bad grades
• Disrespect
• ...and more!

Getting Through to Your Child is just one of our award-winning parenting programs included with The Total Transformation® Online Package.

THE TOTAL TRANSFORMATION® ONLINE PACKAGE

One low price gets you full online access to ALL of the following programs:

• The Total Transformation®
• The Complete Guide to Consequences™
• Getting Through to Your Child™
• Two Parents, One Plan™
• The ODD Lifeline™
• Life Over the Influence™

Get your online access today for only $19.99 per month, a fraction of the cost of family counseling.

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★★★★★ I Got Through to My Child - Seth W.
"I needed a structured way to approach problem solving with my children. This has worked wonderfully for my children and me."

★★★★ Another Empowering Parents Program that works - Laurie
"I got this program because I was still having some lingering issues with disrespect from my teenage daughters. This program explained how to talk to my girls, how to get both sides of an issue out calmly and come to a mutually respectful conclusion. We still have some issues but for the most part, we can talk thru things."

★★★★ Living with ADHD? a parent to parent support group - Denise
"At our support group we as parents viewed this dvd and found the information very helpful. The role playing is also helpful, it gives parents a vision of how to respond in a way that is less emotional and more productive. our support group has viewed many of the total transformation dvd's and I feel they are right on track with helping parents, if they are willing to put the time and commitment into the program."

★★★★★ Understanding the problems - Violettafv
"I am a K-5 music teacher, and I teach at a school that has several challenging students. I needed help trying to find a way to build a relationship in the short time I see them once a week that didn't leave them out feeling lost, or that I was too mean or unfair. This program truly helped me see where some of my communication problems were and where I could learn to help them to help themselves. I understand how important it is for students to take responsibility for their actions and to be held accountable for them."

★★★★★ What A Relief! - TXSue
"The Total Transformation Program helped to stop the battles with my 12 year-old every day over everything. It has been such a wonderful relief. We still have work to do. But the great thing about the program is that I can go back to it again and again, and pick up new ideas each time. James gives you very specific examples and words to use. I would recommend that every parent try the program."
 

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