Life is full of uncertainties, challenges, and unexpected turns. Whether it’s navigating personal struggles, raising children, or guiding young hearts as a houseparent, we often find ourselves in situations where we don’t have all the answers. In these moments, trusting God is not just a phrase, it’s a way of life that brings peace and direction.
There are times when life feels overwhelming, when plans don’t work out, when doors close, or when we feel unprepared for what’s ahead. Proverbs 3: 5-6 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Trusting God means surrendering control, believing that even when we don’t see the full picture, He is working all things for good.
As a houseparent, each day brings unique challenges, helping teens navigate emotions, making tough decisions, and balancing responsibilities. It’s easy to feel exhausted or uncertain about whether we’re making the right choices. But God promises to give wisdom to those who ask. When we seek Him in prayer and trust in His guidance, He provides the strength and patience we need.
Difficult seasons test our faith the most. Whether it’s dealing with personal struggles, financial worries, or the weight of caring for others, it’s easy to question God’s plan. Yet, the Bible reassures us that God is near in our trials. Isaiah 41:10 says, “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Trials are not a sign that God has abandoned us; rather, they are opportunities for us to deepen our trust in Him.
As I reflect on mine and Chase’s time here at The Joy House, I am reminded of God’s faithfulness in every season. He has allowed us to pour into the lives of these teens, to witness their growth, and to be part of a ministry that brings hope and restoration. Now, as we prepare for the next chapter, we are trusting Him to bring the right couple to step into this calling. We know that He has already gone before them, preparing their hearts and equipping them for the journey ahead. We ask for prayers in this transition, that God will make His plan clear and provide the perfect couple to continue this important work. Just as He led us here, we believe He will be faithful in leading the next houseparents in His perfect timing.
It’s natural to worry about what’s ahead, our families, careers, and the young lives we influence. But Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:34, “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.” Trusting God means knowing that He holds our future in His hands. When we walk in faith, we can rest in His promises, knowing that He will provide, lead, and sustain us.
Trusting God is not a one-time decision but a daily practice. It’s choosing prayer over worry, faith over fear, and obedience over doubt. When we trust God in all things, we experience His peace that surpasses all understanding. No matter what season you are in, whether you’re guiding young hearts, managing life’s demands, or facing personal trials, God is faithful! Trust Him in all things, and you’ll find the strength, wisdom, and peace you need for each step of the journey. |
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| One of our residents is a wonderful writer. She has allowed us to share one of her poems with you all. We hope you are blessed as we were with her heart. |
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He met me in my mess
When I was wrestling with my flesh
When hopes and dreams started to crumble and crash
On the verge of breaking under stress
He met me in my mess
Lost in oblivion
I ran into paths unknown
To erase the ache inside my chest
When tribulations put my faith to the test
When guilt won't let me rest
I cried unto Him
Until I shed no more tears to face the fears
I found God in my mess |
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Marriage in Christianity is viewed as a sacred covenant, symbolizing the relationship between Christ and the church. It is considered an essential part of God’s plan, meant for companionship, procreation, and mutual support. The Bible teaches that this is a union between a man and a woman, and this bond reflects God’s love and commitment.
However, in today’s world, couples face numerous challenges. These include issues such as rising divorce rates, financial stress, communication problems, infidelity, and the pressures of modern society, all of which can strain a relationship. In addition, changing cultural norms and the increasing acceptance of non-traditional family structures present new hurdles for couples seeking to maintain a strong, lasting Christian marriage.
The Biblical foundations of marriage are rooted in the creation narrative, the teachings of Jesus, and the writings of the apostles. Here are a few key principles that outline God’s design for marriage. Creation of Marriage: In the beginning, God created man and saw it was not good for him to be alone. So, He created woman from man’s rib to be his helper and companion. This passage establishes marriage as a divine institution designed for companionship, partnership, and unity. In Genesis 2:24, the words “for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and they will become one flesh.” Are foundational in understanding marriage as a covenant that involves deep unity and commitment. Marriage as a covenant: Malachi 2:14-16 Marriage is portrayed as a covenant before God, not just a contract between two people. God values faithfulness in a marriage and holds individuals accountable to their commitments to their spouses. The role of Love & Respect: In Ephesians 5:22-33: The Apostle Paul provides a profound teaching on marriage, calling wives to submit to their husbands as the church submits to Christ, and husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church. This passage emphasizes sacrificial love, mutual respect, and the selfless care that should define a marriage relationship. This mutual submission and sacrificial love reflect God’s design for marriage to mirror Christ’s relationship with the church. In summary, the biblical foundations of marriage emphasize the importance of love, faithfulness, mutual respect, and sacrificial care.
In Christian marriage, communication and conflict resolution are essential elements for maintaining a healthy, God-honoring relationship. 1.) Speak the truth in love, meaning communication in marriage should be honest but also compassionate and respectful. This involves being truthful with one another while fostering understanding and care, avoiding harsh or hurtful words. 2.) Listen Actively: Good communication requires active listening, where both partners seek to understand each other before responding. Listening with empathy and patience promotes mutual respect and reduces misunderstandings. 3.) Guarding your words: Words can often hurt or heal. In conflict, it is vital to choose words carefully, avoiding cutting remarks or insults that can damage the relationship. The best approach to resolving conflict in a Christ-like manner is to address issues promptly. Delaying or ignoring conflict can lead to resentment and bitterness. Couples are encouraged to address disagreements and seek resolution quickly. Forgiveness and reconciliation are also important because it is critical for healing and moving forward. Holding on to grudges can hinder the relationship, but offering grace and reconciliation reflects the forgiveness that Christ extended to us.
Marriage can be challenging and hard at times. Thankfully, God has given us guidance and a foundation where we can pattern our relationships with His design. Holding true to these principles will lead to stronger marriages and a closer bond with our Heavenly Father. |
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| We’re looking for our next great husband and wife team to serve as house parent’s in one of our girls' homes. We need a couple who have a demonstrated passion for teens and for Christ. This is a vocational opportunity filled with great challenge and great reward. Interested couples can find all the necessary details at the link provided and how to apply. We would be blessed if our partner/friends can share this in your social networks and pray with us for the Lord to bring us the exact right couple. |
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