One of the greatest joys for me is to watch a person make positive changes in their life. Witnessing a teenager switch from self-destructive to productive choices is a wonderful thing. Of course, some take longer than others to make this switch, sometimes even after that person has left the Joy House program, but the various results when it happens are the same. Despair gives way to joy. Excitement about life replaces hopelessness. I’ve heard teenagers say their depression is no longer there, and self-harm is a distant memory. I’m blessed beyond measure to see and hear firsthand a life, once in the throes of chaos, now driven towards a promising future. Yes, there are also varying degrees of change for these kids. Some changes are more subtle, and we celebrate those changes just as much, but the blessing for those of us working with these teenagers is still both a wonder and a testament to a Faithful God who is at work throughout the entire process. Another miracle that we see is the effects of personal change within the home.
Change can be contagious. There are many examples of teenagers positively influencing the home. Better communication, increased understanding, and appreciation from the teen will sometimes infect the relationships to the point of parents lowering their protective defenses. Hearing parents convey that their home is more peaceful, and loving is another testament to our Lord. Having a front-row seat to these types of miracles is a gift that our staff and I receive, and something that all of us can experience in our life when we take the steps towards positive change. |