Hi John,

Psychologist and therapist Carl Rogers said one of the most important things he learned about personal growth in his years of living and helping others was this:

“The judgments of others, while they are to be listened to, and taken into account for what they are, can never be a guide for me.”

Today’s article comes from the 2014 archives of Kerry Patterson and relates a story of belonging, imposter syndrome, and navigating both.
You Don’t Belong
by Kerry Patterson

I couldn’t believe my good fortune. Preston Coventry, one of the more popular kids in the ninth grade, had invited me to the grand opening of his neighborhood association’s swimming pool. When the appointed day arrived, I hiked across town to the posh facility where I was greeted by a tall fence and a stern guard. After I waited a couple of minutes, Preston approached the gate, gave a quick nod, the guard pushed a button, and I was granted entrance.
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You either walk inside your story and own it or you stand outside your story and hustle for your worthiness.
 
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