Impressive Insights for Velislava's Entanglement Issue
"This ability to ask The Unseen Therapist for guidance sets OEFT apart from all man-made methods, including EFT Tapping."
Gratitude to Velislava Stoycheva for allowing me to share our correspondence (see below). She wrote me initially for thoughts on a case involving her client's difficult-to-understand "entanglement with her mother" issue.
After a Skype discussion (in the presence of The Unseen Therapist) it became clear that Velislava and her client had the same issue. Further work with The Unseen Therapist brought up two pointers which, eventually, became 50 more.
Fascinating.
This ability to ask The Unseen Therapist for guidance sets OEFT apart from all man-made methods, including EFT Tapping. It can save loads of "detective work" and offers unparalled efficiency.
e-hugs, Gary
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Dear Gary,
I promised I'd get back to you when I have made progress.
First, a summary of our last call:
I shared with you I have this "misty spot" before me, when I think of that entanglement aspect of my client - like she has no thoughts of her own, but feels entangled with her mother.
You asked me if I feel entangled with someone and I said I don't think so. I told you I feel the same "misty spot" when I think of my issue that I can't make decisions.
You suggested the penalty for making a decision might be getting criticism (and I totally agreed!) and you gave me two points for homework:
1. To make a list with specific events related to criticism and work on them
2. To apply "see this do that & listen" technique for the "misty spot"
Then get back to you with the result.
I started with point 2. and in the listening part I've got two important pointers:
**The name of my cousin - she was my role model in the first 15 years of my life.
** A verse from a song lyrics of a band I like, which says: "I'm like a mirror, I'm nothing 'till you look at me", and the song is related to my ex-boyfriend.
These two pointers led me to the realization that I was totally entangled with both my cousin and my ex in different periods of my life, I just didn't call it "entanglement".
I had no opinion of my own and waited for them to show me the "right way". I'm that mirror from the song - nothing, until someone looks at it, then I reflect the image. And this is my strategy in life to avoid criticism. Also, I've found something I've written in a diary 11 years ago, which sounds like: "I only exist while I listen to people talking. When they stop - I disappear. My thoughts hide under the bed and leave me alone amidst silence."
Next, I had a session with my client and regarding her mom-entanglement, she told me, "Like I don't exist" (wow, same in my diary). We worked with the Unseen Therapist and the entanglement feeling dropped from very high levels (tears, etc.) to a 2. We'll see if this holds in our next session.
And then I made a list with 7 specific events of mine, related to criticism and worked on all of them. On the last event I became very emotional, I felt like my parents cut off my "colourful feathers" and left me grey, shrunk, silent and obedient.
Then with the Unseen Therapist I had a beautiful experience of getting free and I expanded and felt joyful. Also, I've got a couple of good creative ideas for personal projects.
After I finished with all of the 7 criticism-related specific events, I've remembered and listed around 50 more! So I've got a work to do.
You were right when you said "Perhaps The Unseen Therapist has opened a door for both of you."
Thank you for your priceless support!
Warmest regards,
Velislava
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