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Several things stood out to me Tuesday about President Russell M. Nelson’s devotional for young adults at BYU that did not make it into my story about the talk and some of the reaction.

First, in addition to the estimated 19,000 people in the Marriott Center, according to the campus special events department, another 12,946 watched in the BYU-Idaho Center on the campus of BYU-Idaho, according to a tweet by the school.

Now here’s some information that hasn’t been shared anywhere else: As of 4 p.m. Wednesday, the devotional had been viewed 205,000 times on churchofjesuschrist.org, 176,000 times on the church’s Facebook page and 123,000 times on its YouTube channel, according to the Church Communication Department.

That’s more than half a million times the devotional has been viewed in 29 hours. This was a major event. President Nelson issued an invitation to watch on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, and young adults responded in droves. In fact, they continue to do so. Nearly 40% of those views happened between 8 p.m. Tuesday and 4 p.m. Wednesday.

Second, in a related personal observation, I’ve now seen audiences in Africa, the South Pacific, Europe and North and South America respond to this leader they consider a prophet of God. I’ve written before about President Nelson’s ability to connect with large groups and church members’ reverence for a prophet. There is a sheer joy and love that flows back and forth between him and those in attendance. As much as I’ve seen it, I was struck strongly by how it existed after his devotional address on Tuesday, as 19,000 students stood up to say goodbye. He pointed and waved, as I wrote in my article, to each section of the stadium. The students waved and beamed back. This is not unique to President Nelson. I’ll get back to that in a moment.

I was looking at the students to see their reaction to his talk. What I saw was devotion.

Third, inherent in his message, but perhaps underreported, was that the church’s prophet spoke plainly about lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender children and parents as sons and daughters of a God who loves them perfectly, and that church leaders wept at their grief and care for them deeply. It’s all there throughout the transcript of the talk, but mostly clearly stated in this sentence: “Because we feel the depth of God’s love for his children, we care deeply about every child of God, regardless of age, personal circumstances, gender, sexual orientation or other unique challenges.”

As he also mentioned, prophets aren’t always popular, and some people have criticized this talk. But some also have noted that it was the first time a church president has used the words lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender or the term LGBT, which has never been said in general conference. President Nelson plainly said, “I see you” and showed he listened to and heard the confusion and heartache he himself said was created in November 2015.

Fourth, it’s noteworthy that the only other time he publicly provided background about the November 2015 policy was in a worldwide broadcast to young adults in February 2016. The first time he spoke about the policy update of April 2019 was, again, to young adults in Tuesday’s worldwide broadcast.

Fifth, it’s hard to believe it had been nearly eight years since a sitting president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints spoke at BYU.

President Thomas S. Monson spoke on campus three times as church president, but the final time was Nov. 1, 2011. The Marriott Center was full that day, too, judging by the photos from the Deseret News story. As I looked for those, I found that I wrote a piece the next day about the major subject of his talk, Clayton Christensen. It included much of what President Monson said about him and provided additional information about Christensen, whose wife was one of my Primary teachers growing up and who is an author of a book on missionary work and one of Harvard’s most renowned business professors.

OK, back to that note about how other prophets have connected with large groups. Many of you have seen it happen, be it with President David O. McKay, President Spencer W. Kimball or others. But after that last BYU address by President Monson, our Deseret News reporter Sarah Gambles wrote that he left the Marriott Center in style.

He gave the crowd an air high five.

My Recent Stories

At BYU devotional, church president details ‘love and laws of God’ in description of 2015 and 2019 LGBT policy announcements (Sept. 17, 2019)

For the Church News: How Elder and Sister Uchtdorf have come full circle since organizing the Frankfurt temple open house 32 years ago (Sept. 12, 2019)

What I’m Reading ...


This is a must-read. In 1993, my friend Jeff Call and I launched a BYU sports magazine together with a group of buddies. He’s an extremely talented writer. The first piece I saw him write as a BYU student at the Daily Universe stunned me. He was at a professional level already. I’ve always thought he should be a magazine writer. Well, guess what? He’s just published a magazine-style piece about an elite quarterback prospect who is serving a mission in Brazil. You have to read this. All of his skills are on display. It’s like the Gary Smith piece Sports Illustrated published in 1985 about Sean Covey and Scott Peterson, minus Smith’s gaffe in the first paragraph mistaking how Latter-day Saints baptize. I can’t recommend Jeff’s story with more enthusiasm. It’s fantastic. Plus, there’s a video and great photos by Spenser Heaps. 

How about an audio link instead? This link is to a podcast with the author of “The Only Plane in the Sky: The Oral History of 9/11.” I ordered the book after listening to this. It’s riveting. 

Speaking of great magazine writers, Steve Rushin has a smart, humorous piece out on a cultural loss you might not have even noticed. Did you ever hold on to a ticket from a game or concert because it meant something special? Maybe time with your dad or some other vital connection? Now those paper tickets we once carried to events have all but disappeared, replaced by digital tickets on our smartphones. Rushin’s lyrical look at the loss is fun and deeply meaningful at the same time. 

Behind the Scenes

Before heading to the airport on my last day in Germany, I walked some of Frankfurt's streets just to feel the city where I'd served so much of my mission. I stumbled on St. Peter's Church and this moving memorial to AIDS victims. Each nail is different just like each lost loved one. The gold lettering in the center says "Verletzte Liebe," which translates as injured or wounded love. I saw a second powerful memorial at the Museum Judengasse, which has 12,000 little plaques on walls like this, each with the name, birth and death date of a Holocaust victim, as well as the concentration camp where they were murdered.
This is one of my heroes, author and BYU professor Ann Madsen. The late Truman Madsen married up when he met her, and he is one of the greatest BYU professors and Latter-day Saint thinkers ever, in my estimation. Ann beckoned to me before President Nelson's devotional at BYU began on Tuesday morning, and we grabbed a selfie I'll treasure.

Your Weekly TadPoll


I want to hear from you! Each week I’ll ask a question. Simply reply to this email to share your thoughts. Provide your name and hometown, and I’ll include some of the most thoughtful answers in next week’s newsletter.

Question: Is there a talk by a spiritual leader you attended that changed your life or resonated with you in an unforgettable way?


Last Week’s Responses:
Question: For those who served a mission and have since visited the place where they served, what did you find most surprising or meaningful?

“I served my mission in Santiago, Chile. I was there from 1976 to 1978. President William R. Bradford was my first mission president. President Gibson replaced him. In 2011, the church held a big celebration in Santiago to celebrate 50 years since the Chilean mission had been organized. My wife, Sharon, along with one of my companions and his wife and two of his kids were there. It was a wonderful two weeks. My companion and I went back to the house we lived in, and the family we lived with were still there. It was a wonderful reunion. We saw many people we had known during our missions. The celebration was held in a soccer stadium in Santiago. The program lasted three to four hours. It was very well done. Toward the end of the program, they had invited all return missionaries to go on the stage. It was awesome to be there and feel the love of the members for the missionaries who had served the people of Chile.”
—Kirk 

“‘I served in what was then the South German Mission, headquartered in Munich. My wife and I (whom I met during my mission; she was a great missionary) returned in 2010 to the same mission, now called the Alpine German-Speaking Mission with the same mission home, to serve in Innsbruck, Austria for two years. Obviously the borders have changed. These missions were never easy and convert baptisms were treasured experiences. I was gratified to meet with people who joined the church during my first mission as well as our second mission and to see them serving and being served in the church. In Austria, we served with young single adults. It is a true joy to see them finding eternal partners in the membership of the church and building strong, faithful families. I can honestly say I am pleased to see the stable future of the church in these lands, in spite of the small numbers of members.”
—Steven

“I served in the Germany Frankfurt Mission (1991 to 1993) and I know Friedrichsdorf, having served in nearby Friedberg. Exactly four years ago, my wife and I were in Wiesbaden at the beginning of a 2 1/2 week European vacation. The biggest shock probably came when we visited Pirmasens, a modest-size city near the French border. I spent six months there in the middle of my two years, also the last six weeks of my mission, and I hardly recognized the place. Undoubtedly there had been new construction, but I think also a missionary sees things differently than a tourist does. But ... the straßenverkauf bratwurst was absolutely as good as remembered. Maybe better.”
—Jason
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