Gazbubu Babaiarova, who lived through a kidnapping herself, is fighting to end her country’s outdated tradition. With a bottle of vodka in hand, a Kyrgyzstani mother declares in earnest that they’ll be kidnapping a bride-to-be for her son in an hour or two. “We need her in the field,” she tells filmmaker Petr Lom, looking straight on. “The car is at the gate.” And so begins a bizarre scenario in which Lom gets a front-row seat to the big day, a kidnapping and marriage, and a glimpse at the ominous ever after. More than a decade later, the 50-minute documentary, called Bride Kidnapping in Kyrgyzstan, is a crucial tool in Gazbubu Babaiarova’s arsenal in fighting for this so-called Kyrgyz tradition to be recognized as criminal human rights abuse. In Kyrgyzstan, a former Soviet republic in Central Asia, a girl is said to be kidnapped every 40 minutes in the practice called kyz ala kachuu. A man organizes a kidnapping of a girl he likes, where she might be taken off the street and bundled into a car, and ultimately forced to marry him. |