Why are so many French people marrying foreigners? Nearly seven years ago to the day, I married a French man. I was 24 years old, fresh out of college, and my student visa was going to expire in a matter of months. Of course, I loved my boyfriend at the time — I had left my life in America behind for him after a whirlwind romance of just two months — but our marriage, which has since ended, was equally about the fear of me having to leave. At our wedding, I wore a flower crown. My dad flew over from the United States, and all of our friends showed up and threw rice at us as we left the courthouse. By all appearances, it was a wedding like any other, but both my new husband and I were unsure what it really meant to us. Was it just a way for me to stay? A way for us to keep dating? Or were we really making a lifelong commitment to one another? Our situation was, apparently, not unique. In fact: Marriages between foreigners and French nationals have tripled in France since the 1970s. |