Gone were the kitchen and table where we gathered for weekly family meetings to talk about our goals, challenges, One Words, and mission statement.
The walls we had marked with penciled heights to track their growth were reduced to scraps.
The rooms where we laughed, cried, prayed, celebrated, and even argued were crushed in an instant.
We loved our house, but it was falling apart. A bad roof and poorly installed windows caused water damage and mold. We had a choice: move or rebuild.
We loved the property, so we decided to rebuild a home where, God willing, we’ll live for the next 30 years of our lives.
A few weeks ago, I wrote about the process of clearing out our home and deciding what to keep and what to let go of. It was uncomfortable. But even more uncomfortable was finding a place to live and moving all our belongings.
I know our situation doesn’t compare to those who lost their homes in recent floods, tornadoes, hurricanes, and fires. These families didn’t have time to decide what to keep. They lost everything in an instant. Their change came through tragedy.
Yet, no matter how change comes about, it usually brings discomfort.
We were very comfortable. Now we’re uncomfortable. And no one likes being uncomfortable but it’s part of life. In fact, I’d argue it’s necessary for growth.
It’s during seasons of discomfort that we learn, adapt, and grow.
Well, let me clarify: discomfort can lead to growth if we choose to embrace the change.
If we resist it, if we get discouraged by it, if we feel helpless during it, discomfort can lead to despair instead of growth.
The key is to embrace whatever change you’re going through, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Ask yourself:
What can I learn from this?
How can I grow from this?
What is this teaching me?
It’s also important to look forward, not backward.
That doesn’t mean we don't get sad or nostalgic when we think about the old days. It just means we remember, feel those emotions, and then move forward to create what’s next.
The beautiful thing about life is you get to take your memories with you as you live forward and create new ones.
My wife and I have decided to make the most of this experience. We’re excited for this next chapter of our lives.
We know there will be new challenges during the building process. But the vision we have... hosting friends, family, and Circle members in our new home... will power us through any obstacles that come our way.
Because when your vision for your future is greater than your discomfort, you adapt, grow, and find a way forward!
Lead Positive,
Jon
