| -- | May 16, 2019 Abundance  I am on Facebook, and there is a lot of crap on Facebook. Even the non-political crap is stuff I just do not believe in. For example, people say that you should spend your money on experiences, not things. There is some spiritual component to this that I don’t get. I like spending money on experiences (particularly travel), but I like spending money on things more. Clothes in particular. You feel (and act) differently when you are wearing an expensive suit and an expensive pair of shoes. People who make $150,000 a year and still get all their clothes at Target do this not out of frugality, but low self-esteem. It is good and right to spend money on yourself now and then. The other crap you hear on Facebook, and pretty much everywhere else, is that money doesn’t make you happy. Oh yes it does. It is not going to fix broken relationships, or compensate for your bad behavior, or cure your addictions, but buying nice stuff makes you feel good, and nobody should make you feel guilty about that. What I want to talk about today is the concept of abundance, where there is always more than enough in your life. You have enough for the basics—food, clothes, a roof over your head. You have enough for some luxuries—a nice watch, a nice car, some toys. And you have enough that you can give lots of it away. I’m sure you are familiar with the book The Millionaire Next Door. I hate that book. Anyway, the book implies that everyone should aspire to be a millionaire. No—everyone should not aspire to be a millionaire. For some people, it is simply not attainable, and you are going to annoy a lot of people in the process. The goal should be to reach a state of abundance. Where you have more than enough for yourself, your friends, your family, and your charity—and you never have to worry about money. Abundance is a state of mind, more than anything. The magic of abundance is that some people get there with $25,000 a year. (For me, it took a lot more.) Hippy-Dippy This is not some hippy-dippy essay about how you can be like Gandhi and own a pair of sandals and be happy. Lots of people who say they have enough are lying. Most people wish they had more. Getting to a state of abundance takes a lifetime of work and effort. You have to do all the stuff we’ve talked about in The 10th Man before. So if you are one of the 59% of people who don’t take advantage of a tax-deferred retirement account, you are probably not going to reach a state of abundance. If you violate the 30% rule when you buy a house, you are probably not going to reach a state of abundance. If you get a car loan with a 7-year maturity, you are probably not going to reach a state of abundance. None of this is hard. It’s just being smart and practicing a little delayed gratification. In other words, it’s not a skill problem; it’s a will problem. And that’s the main reason the personal finance “industry” continues to fill up with bloggers and influencers, even though it’s really not that hard. In a lot of cases, abundance isn’t a revenue problem, it’s an expense problem. For many people, more money doesn’t solve the existential problem that no matter how much you get, it keeps disappearing. Abundance doesn’t mean spending it all—it means having enough for yourself, your family, and your causes—and having plenty left over. Saul Bloom famously quipped in Ocean’s Twelve that he wanted the last check he wrote to bounce. Cute, but that’s not really what you want. You want to be able to leave something behind to your descendants, at least while you have the ability to do so. In my case, there will be lots of happy cats. Some People Never Get There The other thing about that God-awful Millionaire Next Door book is that all the people profiled in it didn’t change their behavior once they became millionaires. They were still rabid CFs. A million dollars may not be a lot of money, depending on where you go in the country. But in a lot of places it is a lot of money, and maybe it’s time to move up from Old Navy to Banana Republic. I said months ago that you want to be a CF earlier in life, so you can be a High Roller later in life. Most people get it completely reversed, which is the source of virtually all money unhappiness. I’m a lucky guy. Cool job, great marriage, nice house, fun hobbies—I have it all. It was a struggle in the beginning, but because of hard work and many good money decisions (and a handful of bad ones), it is no longer a struggle. Plenty of people have more money than me. I hear about them all the time, because I have a lot of high net worth financial advisors as friends. You would be amazed at what’s out there. I have abundance, which, summed up in one sentence, means: Everything is going to be okay. 
Jared Dillian
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