I’m always delighted (and sometimes a little amazed) at how modern research continually proves what Christians have been teaching for millennia. The latest in this category? The slew of statistics that prove getting married (as opposed to cohabitating) is more likely to lead to a lasting union.

For more detail on the topic, read researcher Scott Stanley’s article on “How to Improve Your Odds for a Successful Marriage.” He advises, “If you’re dating seriously, don’t slide into a life-long commitment. Decide on it.”

Speaking of marriage, one crucial recommendation many experts make is to get counseling before the wedding day, not after. Our resource on Premarital Counseling will help your church do this well. It is designed to help you improve or launch a premarital counseling program.