The Negative Effects of Spoiling Children | by Madisyn Taylor Parents are moved by instinct to love, nurture, and provide for their offspring. Because our children are so much a part of us, we want to see them blissfully happy. Also, our own desire to be liked, materialist pressures, and a fervent wish that our children have everything we lacked as youngsters can prompt us to spoil them. However, while it might seem that buying your child expensive gifts will give them fond memories of childhood or that you can heal your emotional wounds by doting on your sons and daughters, you may be unconsciously interfering with your children's evolutional development. One of the most precious gifts you can grant your children is the true independence they gain when they learn to earn what they covet and become stewards of their own happiness. Try allowing your children to experience life to the fullest. Let them work and earn what they want. When the time comes for them to go to college and enter the workforce, you will have the confidence that you have raised a child that can both enter and contribute to society confidently. When children are not afforded the opportunity to explore self-reliance, to understand that with possession comes price, and to fulfill their own needs, they develop a sense of entitlement that blinds them to the necessity of hard work and the needs of others. We may spoil children because giving them gifts is pleasurable. Or we may want to avoid conflict out of fear that our children won't love us. Yet children who are given acceptance, love, and affection in abundance are often kinder, more charitable, and more responsible than those whose parents accede to their every material demand. They develop a strong sense of self that stretches beyond possessions and the approval of their peers, and as adults they understand that each individual is responsible for building the life they desire. If you find yourself giving in to your child's every whim, ask yourself why. You may discover that you are trying to answer for what you feel is lacking in your own life. Rearing your children to respect the value of money and self-sufficiency as they grow from infants to young adults is a challenging but rewarding process. It can be difficult to watch a child struggle to meet a personal goal yet wonderful to be by their side as they achieve it. Your choice not to spoil your children will bless you with more opportunities to show them understanding and compassion and to be fully present with them as they journey toward adulthood. | DailyOM Course Spotlight by Danielle Collins Have you heard about the anti-aging sensation that promises to take years off your face? With just minutes of effort per day, Face Yoga can help you look years younger by activating collagen production and naturally lifting and toning the 43 muscles in your face. With this course, you'll learn how to make facial lines and wrinkles disappear naturally using tested and mastered techniques from international Face Yoga expert, Danielle Collins. Get ready to tap your way to a more vibrant, glowing, and younger-looking you! Top 10 DailyOM Courses 1. 21 Day Tabata Yoga Body Challenge 2. Chair Yoga for Healing, Strength and Mobility 3. How and When to Leave a Relationship 4. Pelvis Reset for Lower Back Pain 5. Shedding Your Menopausal Middle in 10 Days 6. Overcoming Self-Sabotage 7. 21 Day Booty Core 8. Chakra Dance to Change Your Life 9. Non-Surgical Facelift 10. Go Sleeveless in 14 Days
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