For those who don't yet understand themselves, John, it's impossible that they might understand you.
 
It’s the same for those who don’t yet love themselves...

Happily, you’re in control here.
 
Cryptically,
   The Universe
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Actually, John, to understand means "to see God,” and then tears doth flow. 
We are so blessed.