When the challenges of someone else's life have you tied in knots, John, it usually means it's time to start focusing on your own life.
 
Doesn't that feel better?
  The Universe
John, last week I told you about a powerful book on meditation...

Thoughts become things... choose the good ones! ®
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Of course it's easier to solve other people's “problems,” John, you chose more challenging ones.
Want to meditate?