There's always more than one right answer, path, possibility, nuance, or flavor - so insist upon none. 

Insisting on details, John, always limits you. 

Purple Moonbeam Chocolate, please -

John, this book is about why you chose this lifetime... 

and who you’ll meet in heaven. 

Coyote Ocean Cofferine? Double Chunky Banilla? Stop me, John... Desert Cactus Crunch?