Not that you haven't figured this out, John, but the person who can point to their own acts of kindness, no matter how plentiful, is not necessarily a kind person; who can point to their own acts of thoughtfulness, no matter how plentiful, is not necessarily thoughtful; who can point to their own acts of generosity, no matter how plentiful, is not necessarily generous... and so on.
Yeah, they still rock. As do you.
Mucho love,
The Universe
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