There's always a price to be paid for doing, being, and having more, but it has little to do with working harder or knowing the "right" people. 

In as few words as possible, John... it often boils down to simply “getting out more." 

Even more,

   The Universe

John, what’s your “happiness-level” in each of these areas?

1. Relationships 2. Wealth and abundance 3. Creative livelihood

4. Losing weight and looking great 5. Health and healing 

My guess is that there’s still room for even greater happiness in each one.

While holding the vision, John, not worrying about the hows, and, every now and then, sauntering.