Actually, the only effective way of changing another person, John, is by changing yourself.

Works every time, guaranteed -

   The Universe

John, let’s meet in 2019...

Frankfurt, Germany

London, UK

Denver, CO

San Antonio, TX

Rochester, NY

Stockbridge, MA (Kripalu Yoga)

Chicago, IL

Minneapolis, MN

Eugene, OR

Reno, NV

Houston, TX

New Zealand (WOW TOUR) 

Santa Barbara, CA

Though, John, I'm kind of partial to the way you are right now.