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‍IN THIS ISSUE - For Everyone: (1) Today's Inspiration, (2) THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK: (a) "It's My Fault", (b) Impotence, (3) Articles/Videos To Review, (4) NEED MORE HELP?

For OEFT Course Members - ADVANCED: (1) Our Next Webinar, (2) Last Webinar's Recording Now Available, (3) Association/Dissociation, (4) Practice Group Reminder

‍Today's Inspiration: NYC Woman Pens 4,000 Thank-You’s to Police: ‘They Need Encouragement’ Read Full Article

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THE UNSEEN THERAPIST AT WORK - A SERIES

(Several Examples Below)

NOTE: This series is meant primarily for our OEFT Course Membership and assumes a special, High-End level of understanding. However, as a courtesy, I'm including it here for non-members as well in hopes that we might broaden the benefits for all. It should be well worth everyone's exploration. Enjoy.

e-hugs, Gary

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"I Must Do It Right!" And "It's My Fault" And More

A Full "Good Start" Session

Watch as Barbara and I explore the causes behind her life-limiting issue. As you will see, the label for it shifts from impatience... to... mother issues... to... "I must do it right"... to... "it's my fault"... to... abandonment, losing love and more. Note how The Unseen Therapist appears to begin resolving pieces of this as we work and does this even before we actually enter a formal session. Much to learn here.

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Reviving Stan's Sexual Impotence

A Full "Good Start" Session

Stan's wife surprised him recently with an announcement that she had another lover and wanted to maintain both relationships. At first Stan was excited by the idea but, about a month later, he lost most of his romantic drive. Stan and I discuss the possible causes for this problem and discovered that a major player was his cultural, religious and societal upbringing. Listen in as we work with The Unseen Therapist to unload these limitations and get a "Good Start" on Stan's recovery.

Please note that our internet connection resulted in Stan's voice being somewhat muffled. That's OK because I often have him repeat his words and, at other times, clarify what he said. My voice, it turns out, shows up more clearly and comprises about 75% of the session. Accordingly, the doors we open for Stan should be clear and valuable for many.

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Recommended Previous Articles/Videos To Review

1. From our "Impossible" Healings collection: I Have NEVER Seen Anything Like This In My Medical Career

2. From our Questions & Answers collection: Can We Ever Not Be Sad About Broken Relationships?

3. From our NewThink collection: Learning To Listen

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‍***ADVANCED***
For the Optimal EFT Course Membership
(a paid facility for professionals and self-help students)

Details and pricing for this Membership

Our next Webinar: It will be on Sunday, October 24, at 10am Pacific time. It will be dedicated to Members' questions/comments about our Advanced Lessons, Self-Help Sessions, Challenging cases, personal uses or anything else that will help us climb our Stairway to Miracles.

This will be a prime opportunity to explore your questions and comments. Write to me about them or bring them up at the Webinar.

‍Our last Webinar's recording is now available: To access it, just login to your Optimal EFT Membership Account and, in the left hand menu, click/tap on Recorded Webinars>Webinars 2017 and after>Webinars 106-135>#121 - Practice Group Details.

Here are the Topics of interest:

0:00:00 Gary opens Webinar. Sheri provides an orientation. Gary and Sheri discuss the topic of "fully invited."

0:07:50 Gary discusses involving the client more in an Unseen Therapist session. Deeper work possibilities, better rapport, etc.

0:12:18 Marion offers tips, hints and more regarding practice groups. Gary and Sheri respond.

0:38:28 Pauline comments about the practice groups and an experience regarding carpal tunnel. Gary, Sheri and Marion respond.

0:56:50 Alanna had personal questions about the group. Gary, Sheri and Marion respond.

1:09:46 Gary brings up a comment by Mary wherein group work becomes advantageous if the group pushes your buttons. Mary, Sheri and Marion comment.

1:17:18 Tanzeel asks questions about participating in a practice group. Gary and Marion respond.

1:21:45 Gary and Sheri sign off with a Thank You to Marion.

Ways To Address The Association/Dissociation Issue

This is one of the reasons I frequently say,

"I never want to be fooled by a temporary result."

Question: Hi Gary,

I was listening to webinar 119 wherein the discussion with Dr. Gabrielle Rutten took place about association and dissociation and as I have been using EFT (tapping) for my clients i have seen that when we are done with tapping on specific incidents and its aspects many times clients are not able to "remember" the incident as well as they were able to or they are dissociated, I always assumed that if the client is not able to get the memory back or are now disassociated with the memory that means we have resolved that incident or that aspect. In fact i believed that was one of the signs that we had resolved whatever we were working on.

But from the discussion I am wondering if the client is actually repressing and so not able to associate with the incident or the aspect of it and we have actually not resolved it.

I wanted to know your thoughts about it. I do make sure to test the results in as many possible ways I can but if it is repression then we will require from our side to still push the clients to be associated with the memory while testing.

Warm regards, Neha Mehta

Answer: Hi Neha,

We never know for sure if a client is dissociating (and thus not REALLY resolving) the issue UNLESS WE TEST. This is one of the reasons I frequently say, "I never want to be fooled by a temporary result." There are many ways to do this but here are some of my favorites...

Ask the client to step into their younger selves and, during the specific event, associate themselves by purposely looking through their own eyes. You can be more thorough still by asking them to hear, feel, smell and/or taste whatever may be going on.

Ask the client to narrate the story of the specific event (Tell the Story Technique) in vivid terms. Prod them if they are being too "surfacey" so you get them to properly associate.

Ask the client to run the movie within their own mind and exaggerate the sights, sounds, feelings, etc. Have him/her look for what's not done yet.

These methods often bring about more to work on. However, I tend to bring these out AFTER we have at least "taken the emotional edge off" of what might be an intense issue. I tend to err on the gentle side and start softly.

Hope this helps, Gary

P‍ractice Group Reminder: Our practice group facility regularly offers new opportunities to improve your skills. Please check it out in the Membership section of our website.

‍Note: Please consult physicians on all medical issues.

‍e-hugs, Gary

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