âMemory Pieceâ by Lisa KotheSkimmGiselle, Jackie, and Ellen meet as kids in the early 1980s and bond by crashing a neighborâs Fourth of July barbeque and successfully pilfering hamburgers. Thatâs the beginning of their stories, which we follow through the â90s and finally into a dystopian 2040. Giselle becomes a performance artist, Jackie a software engineer, and Ellen an activist in New York City. Each woman gets her own section of the book, and each one has to contend with the changing world as she figures out what really matters to her. We asked Lisa Ko â whose first novel was the highly acclaimed âThe Leaversâ â a few questions. Hereâs what she had to say⌠Q: Like some of your âMemory Pieceâ protagonists, you were also raised in the New Jersey suburbs during the 1980s. How much did you draw from your own experiences?Ko: Their experiences are not mine and their characters wholly fictional, but the landscapes in which they grew up are familiar to me â Jackie and Giselleâs New Jersey childhoods, and Ellenâs in New York City during the same time. The mall where Giselle does a year-long art project is my childhood mall, Paramus Park; like Jackie and Giselle, I, too, was a reluctant Saturday-morning Chinese school attendee. I also grew up on a steady diet of MTV and dreamt of one day moving to the city and becoming an artist, like Giselle. Q: Whatâs one thing from the â80s you wish still existed today? Ko: Telephone landlines still exist (for now!), but I havenât had one in decades, and sometimes I yearn for that pre-text-messaging, pre-internet-in-your-hand world where we werenât all contactable at all times. Q: In a recent X post, you gave followers a peek at some of the Post-It notes and index cards that helped you plot âMemory Piece.â How many did you go through, and how exactly do you use them?Ko: Hundreds, Iâd guess. I like to use index cards as an analog way to map out more precise scenes when Iâve already drafted some initial ones, trying to figure out how to write more intentionally. On each card, Iâll write out a line or two about the external action I want the scene to include, as well as the internal action for the characters, and the change that occurs in the scene ⌠Iâll then lay them out and move them around to see if the order makes sense â itâs all open to lots and lots of change. Iâll do the same thing with Post-Its, but put them up on the wall, using different colors for different sections. Q: Whatâs the best book youâve read recently and why?Ko: Iâm reading Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyahâs âChain Gang All Starsâ and itâs just exhilarating â an abolitionist text thatâs part satire, part horror, implicating the reader at every step. |
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The Creamy Pasta Recipe Thatâs Easy, Breezy, and Perfect for SpringtheSkimmPat yourselves on the back: We officially made it to spring. Sure, it might not be quite as warm as weâd like â but, weather be damned, weâre eating as if itâs bike-shorts degrees outside and farmersâ markets are bursting with all of the greens. Which is exactly why weâre recommending The Original Dishâs Creamy Orecchiette with Chicken Sausage & Spring Vegetables. The buttery pasta leans heavily on some of the earliest stars of spring produce (think: leeks, peas, fennel, spinach) and adds ample herbs, white wine, and lemon juice and zest for a welcome zing. The Time Commitment: Around 45 minutes. Meaning, youâll also be able to enjoy the best parts of spring â like longer days and outdoor happy hours. The Original Dishâs Tip: The recipe calls for ramps â onionâs cool, hip cousin â which are only available for a few weeks each year. If you canât find any, sliced spring onions or shallots will also work, but make sure to âcook them in the butter for [two to three] minutes before adding the garlic.â Other Takes: When it comes to recipes that scream spring, there are plenty of other pastabilities (sorry, we had to), like Greek-Style Shrimp Pasta with Kale or Chili Crisp Salmon Farfalle. Looking for something vegetarian? Noodle on Spring Orzotto or Lemon Spaghetti. Not to mention, Ramen Noodles with Miso Pesto and this viral superfood pasta recipe are two creative ways to go green. |
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The Greek Island Where You Can Actually RelaxtheSkimmSantorini and Mykonos may get all the attention, but Paros deserves some of the Cyclades spotlight. It has the same white-washed buildings, narrow stone streets, and clear water as those other spots â without the crowds. PsstâŚif you sign up for this club, theyâll email you when they find too-good-to-be-true-but-somehow-real deals leaving from your home airport, like, say, a roundtrip flight to Greece for as little as $347. No, thatâs not a typo. And it only costs $1 to join their band of 1 million happy travelers â if you sign up before midnight tonight. đ Designed to resemble a traditional Greek village, the Cosme Hotel Paros has 40 luxurious suites, an infinity pool overlooking the Aegean Sea, a stargazing terrace, and a private beach club. Prefer a private rental? The Aperado Paros House has access to a pool and tennis court. đď¸ On this charming island, your job really is beach. Just a five-minute walk from the Parikia ferry port, Livadia Beach has chairs and umbrellas available for rent along its sandy stretch. But donât miss the chance to explore (or simply admire) the unique rock formations and coves at Kolymbithres Beach. We also highly recommend booking a catamaran cruise for sailing, snorkeling, and sightseeing. đˇ When you need a sunbathing break, drive up to Monastery of Agios Antonios for an IG-worthy, 360-degree view of the Aegean Sea. Art lovers should stop by Marshard Paros, a chic ceramic studio run by a former fashion photographer. Foodies can enjoy a tour and tasting at Petra, a sustainable, family-run farm with olive oil, spices, and jam for sale. đ´ For a taste of authentic Greek cuisine, head to Souvlakia Kargas where the menu only has three items: gyros, souvlaki, and kebabs. Then, sip on an Aperol spritz and enjoy the sunset at Vavayiaâs Cocktail Bar. For dinner, head to Dionysos Restaurant Garden for freshly caught seafood, which, as its name suggests, is set in a gorgeous courtyard garden. Get there for 90% less byâŚsigning up for this club. Donât worry about scouring the web for the best flights; theyâll keep you posted on canât-miss travel deals like an under-$350 RT ticket to Greece or $500 off a summer Eurotrip. Oh, and Skimmârs can join for just $1 before midnight tonight. Donât forget to send us a postcard.* |
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We asked you to vote on an etiquette question youâd like answered. The winner was: Q: A few weeks ago, my friend got divorced, and I meant to reach out â but I completely blanked. Is it too late now? If not, should I acknowledge and apologize for the delay, or will that make it more awkward?âItâs never too late to send a note, apologize, or reach out â for anything. People think if a certain amount of time has passed, theyâre past their mark, but thereâs no set date ⌠I love the saying, âNever complain, never explain.â You donât need to give a tardy explanation â you just need to do it ⌠[ideally] in person or [on the] phone ⌠If you feel bad, you can apologize [and say something like], âI have no excuseâ or âI wanted to give you spaceâ ⌠Some people feel very uncomfortable about things like this, [so sending] a note [first] would [also] be acceptable. Say, âHey, listen, I donât want to bug you, Iâm sure youâre going through a lot, [but] know that Iâm thinking about you. Iâll reach out to you at [X] time.â Then make sure you do follow up ⌠It [comes down to] the golden rule. If this happened to you, youâd want [your friend] to do the same thing. Not saying anything is only a stumble â but it becomes a major fall when you do nothing, especially if the friendship is a close one.â |
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Q: Whatâs the most meaningful financial advice youâve ever received? Jasmine Butler: Don't count your chickens before they hatch. Meaning, do not make significant purchases in anticipation of a significant bonus, raise, etc. before you have the funds in hand. You never know when circumstances could change (i.e. a company downsizes or restructures your compensation). Also, make sure your finances are in alignment with your values.* | Featured ProfessionalJasmine ButlerFinancial Advisor at Edward Jones. Her answer has been edited for length and clarity. Find more financial education here. |
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Skimmâd by: Melissa Goldberg, Alex Carr, and Niven McCall-Mazza | Photos by Riverhead Books, The Original Dish, Emily Kim Photography, eyecrave productions via Getty Images, Brand Partners Design by theSkimm *PS: This is a sponsored post. |
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