There are many things that contribute to an inability to orgasm — or being “anorgasmic” — as it’s sometimes called. “Inhibitions in the bedroom, cultural or religious beliefs that make it hard to mentally relax, medical conditions or taking medications, sexual hang-ups from past experiences, and relationship or intimacy issues” are a few, according to sexologist Sadie Allison, as well as “a lack in education around sexual anatomy, arousal and response, pleasure and the clitoris.” “Unfortunately they don’t teach this important information in school,” she added. “But the good news is, this is something that can be practiced and learned with success!” Intrigued? Here’s what sex therapists tell people who have never had an orgasm. Xo, Ashley Rockman |