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With this week’s New Hampshire primary dealing a probably fatal blow to Nikki Haley’s campaign, November’s presidential contest promises to pit two of the most avowedly pro-Israel politicians in U.S. history against each other. Again.


Joe “You don’t have to be Jewish to be a Zionist” Biden has given Israel unprecedented verbal support and American military backup since the start of the brutal war against Hamas — including today’s decision to cut off U.S. aid to UNWRA over suspected ties to the terror group. Donald “Nobody is more pro-Israel than I am” Trump moved the embassy to Jerusalem and spawned the Abraham Accords. They both have Jewish in-laws and love to sprinkle a bisel Yiddishkeit into their speeches and schedules.


Yet the impending rematch between the current and former presidents is terrible for the Jews — and every other minority group in this country facing stereotyping, harassment, hate speech, discrimination or violent threat.


Because every day that Trump is on the campaign trail is a day our public discourse is degraded. A day when people are encouraged to dismiss and dehumanize those who disagree with them. A day of dog whistles and doxxing and disinformation.


Just look at Trump’s victory speech in New Hampshire Tuesday night. He said things that weren’t true, he made fun of Haley’s dress, and his evil-twin sidekick Vivek Ramaswamy bizarrely invoked George Soros, the Jewish billionaire bogeyman of the far-right imagination. Bad, bad, bad for Jews.

Uriya Rosenman, an Israeli Jew (left), and Sameh Zakout, who is Palestinian, bonded over music. (Gili Levinson)

(Getty Images/Collage by Odeya Rosenband)

Biden, to his credit, cited Trump’s idiotic “good people on both sides” rationalization of Charlottesville’s antisemitism-laced Unite the Right rally as a raison d’etre for his 2020 White House bid, and tried mightily to put us out of the muck. But the man who originally described himself as a “bridge” president, suggesting he would step aside after a single term, is stuck in an outdated and failed “two-state solution” framework that is exacerbating generational breakdowns among liberal Jews and between us and our natural political partners.


And whatever you think of Biden’s policies toward the Middle East — or other issues — the simple fact of a 2020 rematch keeps us stuck in that toxic time when what we need more than anything is a new political dynamic.


The fact that it’s a replay between two old white men who’ve done the job before and have approval ratings stuck around 40% does not bode well for turnout among young or other unlikely voters. The worse news? We have 284 days of this demeaning do-over to suffer through.


When my leftist friends were freaking out about the future of the republic after Trump’s shocking victory in 2016, I was sure they were overestimating the potential danger. I believed our democratic institutions were too strong to be destroyed by any individual leader.


I was right in a literal way — the courts blocked scores of misguided Trump policies that would have hurt immigrants, workers, poor people or the environment; Congress managed to pass budgets and avoid wars; and, most importantly, his efforts to overturn his defeat at the polls in 2020 were stymied.


But I was wrong in a more serious way. I did not understand how much damage could be done by giving the ultimate bully pulpit to the ultimate bully. The hate and distrust Trump has unleashed is coursing through every corner of our society today, and its dangerous for Jews and other living things.


You might think it’s a stretch to blame this right-wing autocrat for the spike in antisemitism from the woke left we have experienced since the war spawned by the Oct. 7 Hamas attack on Israel. Look closer, and you can see Trump fingerprints on anti-Zionist speeches and social media posts touting “alternative facts” and in incendiary chants invoking blood-libelous tropes.


Normalization of lying is bad for the Jews. Refusal to debate is bad for the Jews. Demonization of difference is bad for the Jews. Plummeting trust in public institutions, including the media, is very bad for the Jews.


I’ve been in a bunch of depressing conversations in the past few weeks about Nikki Haley, the former U.N. ambassador and South Carolina governor who is — or is it time to say “was”? — the last barrier between us and this depressing rerun of 2020.


I’ve suggested that having a woman of color head a major-party ticket could be transformational — only to be shouted down by outrage over her position on abortion. Democrats who are rightfully terrified of Trump returning to the White House nonetheless prefer his name atop the ballot, convinced that Haley would have a better chance of beating Biden.


They have a point, given her strong showing with independents in New Hampshire, but it’s almost beside the point, because that whole way of thinking is part of how Trumpism has devastated our politics. I know it’s better for my 16-year-old daughter — and son — to see a candidate for the nation’s highest office crack wise about running in high heels than to see a serial sexual harasser making misogynist comments about what she wears.


My friend and former colleague Peter Baker, the chief White House correspondent for The New York Times, this week described the looming rematch as one not just between two presidents but between two Americas. He called ours an “increasingly tribal society” where mounting numbers of Democrats see Republicans as immoral and vice versa.


To me, the most devastating statistics in his article were these: In 1960, about 4% of Americans said they’d be displeased if their kid married someone from the other party. Today, it’s 40% — and only 4% of our marriages are politically mixed. What kind of melting pot is that?


We may be stuck with a Biden-Trump rematch, and with Trump’s debilitating rhetoric, for the next 10 months. But we don’t have to accept the degradation in our discourse. The Jewish thing to do is to tell the truth and respect differing perspectives as well as those who hold them. Whatever they might be wearing.

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UPDATES: READERS RESPOND

I am beyond moved by the outpouring that last week’s column about Yasmine Ayyoub’s quest to escape Gaza generated. Since its publication, 208 people have donated a total of $13,433 to her GoFundMe campaign over the last week, much of it in increments of $18.


Tom Freudenheim, a retired art museum director and great friend of the Forward,  wrote me an email saying he was particularly moved by the quote from Yasmine’s sister Abeer that I chose to highlight in the newsletter:


“Choosing to make a restart in your life is not easy. But choosing to stay in such a place at this time, choosing to stay in a place where you are starving and could be killed at any moment, is much harder.”


Tom, who escaped Nazi Germany as a baby, has spent much of the last few years reconstructing his family’s Holocaust history, including the death of his 14-year-old half-sister, Margit. “That’s the story of what might have been my life,” Tom said in the email. “I try never to forget.”

Meanwhile, remember Dorin and Itamar Cohen, the 30-year-old Israeli couple who spent 27 hours in their safe room on Kibbutz Kfar Aza with their two babies under Hamas fire? Devoted newsletter fans may recall, too, that Rachel and Jeff Braverman seized on my story’s mention of the YouTube animated series Cocomelon because their son Cody voices its main character, JJ, and that Cody sent the Cohen’s 3-year-old son Adam a voice memo and the Bravermans sent the family plane tickets for a getaway to New Jersey.


Well, the Cohens just returned to Israel after an incredible three weeks in the U.S. Dorin spoke powerfully about their ordeal at synagogues, JCCs and rallies in New Jersey, Washington and Florida. They saw the Bravermans’ 8-year-old daughter, Annie, perform in Frozen: The Musical at the Kennedy Center, visited the Museum of Natural History in New York, played in the snow in Short Hills, N.J., and went to the beach in Miami.


A GoFundMe started by the Bravermans has raised nearly $100,000. Their synagogue community and other friends offered toys, diapers, car seats, free therapy, preschool and camp, even a house if the Cohens want to move to New Jersey. Dorin told me this week that she is still trying to wrap her head around it all, and in any case has to stay in Israel until June to finish her master’s degree in children’s development at Bar Ilan University.


“It was cold in New Jersey,” she noted. “It was really good for me, because I spoke a lot, and it was very important to me. We don’t know what’s next.”

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