Tell us what you think the difference is between charm and respect.
| | | | | Hi John,
Occasionally we hear people refer to Crucial Conversations for Mastering Dialogue as “charm school.”
What do you think? Are the Crucial Conversations skills about charming others? Add your perspective in the comments section of today's article.
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| | Why Should I Cater to People Who Are Afraid to Speak Their Mind? | | by Justin Hale |
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| | I am a very direct individual. I struggle to work with anyone who is not direct, who is conflict-avoidant, and who does not speak up to ensure we work together effectively. Trying to make it safe for people like this feels like coddling and a waste of time. I think it’s good to learn skills to speak up, but I don’t see the benefit in placating to people who are insecure or introverted or both. Am I missing something?
Signed,
Direct
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| | | | | | | | Apr 15–19 | | Crucial Conversations® for Accountability | | Join us live online and learn how to:
Master performance discussions. Manage projects without taking over. Reach alignment when stakes are high and opinions vary. Strengthen trust and reliability. Get results and improve relationships. | | | |
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