Hi John,

Have a coworker you just can’t stand?

You’re not alone. Today’s Q&A presents a few options for responding to the peer that peeves you.

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Working with Someone You Just Can’t Stand
by Justin Hale

I have a coworker that I just can’t stand. He is good at his job, but I struggle to get along with him because he is so opinionated and narrow-minded. He has an opinion about everything and can’t fathom any other viewpoint. I’d rather go to the dentist than be in a meeting with him. What am I supposed to do? Should I have a conversation with him about it or just let it go?

Signed,
Exasperated

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. We’ve all been there and it’s no fun. I want to give you some possible solutions and challenge some of your assumptions.

As I see it, here are your options:
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